Sunday, February 24, 2013
Sorry, I meant to update and it's been a crazy week (Jer's and my anniversary was today, and we've been fighting because his idea of celebrating was to go and walk around the outdoor mall.) I got a new laptop (I was renting the old one until we got our taxes back and I could buy a new one, which I did.) It does not have word on it at all. I tried to download it and it keeps giving me errors. Jer is off tomorrow so he's going to work on it to see what's wrong. To be honest, it might be more user error than anything because I'm kind of downloading stupid. Good news is the post is done (I emailed it to myself from the laptop before we returned it) so as soon as he can download and install it, we should be good to go.
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Happy anniversary. He sounds a bit dense like my husband with special moments. We celebrated valentines a bit early & did dinner & a movie so he thought thats all that had to be done for our very first one as a married couple, not even a card. I spent the full day alone because he worked till 10pm, it sucked.
ReplyDeleteYay on the new laptop
Yes, let's compare crappy moments! The hubs waited until the day before V day to do something. We don't get paid til later in the week, so needless to say, he ended up not doing anything. Now all I did was a funny card and two boxes of Jujy Fruits which the man loves, but at least that had some thought and acknowledgement. So, yeah, mine sucked, too. I try not to let stuff like that bug me, but it does, especially when everyone and their sister seems to be getting flowers delivered, etc. mum
ReplyDeleteI told my guy not to do anything but a card and he did exactly that. I like to take advantage of the after Valentines Day sales on flowers. I've had fresh flower in multiple rooms in my house for the past two weeks and I only spent $10.
ReplyDeleteSince our anniversary is 10 days after Valentines day, we never really do much, or we combine the two. To be honest though, Jeremy and I aren't doing too great. He doesn't ever initiate anything, and I've told him several times that I'm unhappy and I need him to plan a date night or something, and he doesn't. So I was VERY clear that "Hey, it's our 5th wedding anniversary, you need to do something and it needs to be special" and... Yeah. We had just gotten our taxes back, so money wasn't an issue, and I had gotten a babysitter, so the kids weren't the problem either.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a crappy moment mum.
ReplyDeleteI explained it to my husband laura that i need to feel loved, like he cared. Ignoring those big moments feels like you are alone. It also feels like the man just doesn't care about making you feel like you are his love. I am not saying it quite right, i know what i want to say in my head but when it comes to paper it just sounds shallow.
We are not celebrating our 5th married anniversary but this was our first valentines as a married couple, i think i know a bit about how you feel. You need to feel appreciated/loved/wanted.